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Transformation

Emotionally Healthy Spirituality

Peter & Geri Scazzero

Something is missing. Sadly, many of us have been taught the importance of spiritual development, while leaving out the reality of our deep need for emotional health and development.

In this gut-honest book, Scazzero outlines his journey and the tell-tale signs of an emotionally unhealthy spirituality. Though he was a pastor, he learned the hard way: you can’t be spiritually mature while remaining emotionally immature. His spiritual revolution reached so far beneath the surface that he and his church were utterly transformed. You will be too!

Emotionally Healthy Spirituality - a book about transformation

Waking the Dead: The Glory of a Heart Fully Alive

John Eldredge

Life is a journey, from where you are – to FULLY ALIVE.
Jesus said, “I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” That’s the offer of Christianity—to make you whole, set you free, bring you fully alive. Have you noticed that few people seem to have found it? Have you?

I’ll always remember the day in my life that I asked the Lord, “How come I’ve loved You since I was a little girl, and I know that I don’t know what ‘abundant life’ really is?” From that moment on, it became my main quest. This book by John Eldredge — reveals the secret of finding a full life, identifying the fierce battle over your heart, and embracing all that God has for YOU. It helped me find the pathway – toward FULLY ALIVE!

There IS so much MORE. Do you want it too?

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A Guidebook to Waking the Dead

John Eldredge

The goal? Bring dead hearts back to life.

Enhance your transformation by utilizing Eldredge’s accompanying workbook to ‘Waking the Dead.’ This guidebook is useful for contemplating and journaling your own journey, and also for group study of this transformative material. You will be led to deep and life-changing answers to three key questions: Why is the heart so important? Can we really trust our hearts? And how do ordinary people live from the heart?

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Adult Children of Alcoholics Syndrome: A Step By Step Guide To Discovery And Recovery

Wayne Kritsberg

A complete self-help program for adult children of alcoholics – and all the other ‘isms’.

Did you know that ‘the dysfunctional family,’ though understood through the study of alcoholic homes, has a much broader definition? Understanding the ‘rules’ and ‘roles’ of a dysfunctional home, no matter what malfunction caused the dis-ease, can bring deep understanding and transformation to our hearts.

In this authoritative book, Wayne Kritsberg shows how to recognize—and remedy—the long-term effects of the dysfunctional family – alcoholic or otherwise. His proven techniques, based on extensive clinical experience, offer real help and real hope for adult children of alcoholics (or dysfunctional families) —and those they love.

The Adult Children of Alcoholics

Discover Your God-Given Gifts

Don & Katie Fortune

Highly recommend for every families’ library!

In their brilliant book, Don & Katie Fortune explain the difference between Manifestation Gifts, Ministry Gifts, and Motivational Gifts.

Understanding your own motivational gifts is an essential way to bring clarity to not only who you are, but how God made you to operate, as part of His Body in the earth.

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Hope For The Flowers

Trina Paulus

This is a tale of a caterpillar who (like us) has trouble BECOMING what he really is. A tale partly about life, partly about revolution and lots about HOPE. For adults and others (including caterpillars who can read).

Hope for the Flowers - A book about transformation

When The Heart Waits: Spiritual Direction For Life’s Sacred Questions

Sue Monk Kidd

Sue Monk Kidd, bestselling author of The Secret Life of Bees, shares the passionate and moving tale of her own spiritual crisis: When life seemed to have lost meaning and her longing for a hasty escape from the pain yielded to a discipline of ACTIVE WAITING.

Full of wisdom, poise, and grace, Kidd’s words will encourage us along our spiritual journey, TOWARD BECOMING WHO WE TRULY ARE.

When the Heart Waits - A book about transformation

Family Ties That Bind: A Self-help guide to change through Family of Origin therapy

Ronald W. Richardson

Life in the family of origin is a tremendously powerful experience for everyone, and the impact of that experience is not restricted to childhood. The views we develop there, about ourselves, others and the world stay with us throughout life.

At some point most of us leave our families physically, but we rarely leave them emotionally. Until we do, we will continue to re-enact (or re-act against) the dynamics of our original family in any new family we establish.

We can’t be free of our early experiences by denying their significance or ignoring them. Thus, there is a journey of transformation for us all to walk out – and this book is a gem, that can serve as a map to help us along the way.

Family ties that Bind - A book about transformation

Living From The Heart Jesus Gave You

James Friesen, E James Wilder, Anne Bierling, Rick Koepcke, and Maribeth Poole.

I HIGHLY recommend this book, for everyone serious about the Journey of Transformation that leads to WHOLENESS, through every age and stage of life.

Much more than a child-rearing book, ‘The Life Model’ laid out in this book has been used widely in ministries of counseling, recovery, pastoral care, prayer ministry, deliverance, inner healing, body life and health.

Missions have adopted the Life Model for restoring hurt missionary children. Almost every major ministry dealing with trauma and abuse in the USA uses the Life Model as part of their teaching. This new version now includes study questions at the end of each chapter.

Living From the Heart Jesus Gave You

Forgiveness

The Supernatural Power Of Forgiveness

Kris & Jason Vallotton

An excellent book on how to process pain.

This read covers much more than the essential element of forgiveness, when facing the loss of betrayal in human relationships. It is a book about processing your pain all the way to freedom. Jason shares his own revelatory process, after a heart-wrenching divorce. Kris (Jason’s dad) shares how the whole family found their eventual way to peace and wholeness.

The Supernatural Power of Forgiveness

Forgive & Forget: Healing the Hurts We Don’t Deserve

Lewis B. Smedes

In this, one of my favorite books on God’s greatest key to freedom, Lewis Smedes defines forgiveness as a healing miracle. He shares four helpful stages in the process of forgiveness: We Hurt, We Hate, We Heal, and We Come Together – maybe. My favorite chapter is #5. Some Nice Things Forgiving Is NOT, and he dares to cover the topic: ‘Forgiving God’ in chapter 10. If you’re struggling, as humans do, to find your way to freedom after unjust suffering – this book will help!

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The Importance of Forgiveness

John Arnott

This short booklet is an absolute GEM. I’ve recommended it to more people than perhaps any other book on the topic of forgiveness.

Why is this book so helpful? Because, here’s a truth we often miss: When we are sinned against – we usually sin in response! In our heart, we judge and dishonor the one who sinned against us. In the process of healing from hurts we don’t deserve, if we do not understand ‘our part,’ we will not be completely free from our pain!

John Arnott and his wife, Carol, clearly explain these two steps to total freedom: How to deal with BOTH our unforgiveness and our judgment – toward those who’ve wronged us.

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Grief

Good Grief

Granger E. Westberg 

An easy read that is extremely helpful.

This is my most highly recommended little book on the basics of the grieving process. It is clear, concise which is very helpful during a time of grieving. Granger expands our understanding of how we grieve and what we grieve beyond loss via death of a loved one.

Good Grief by Granger Westberg

A Grace Disguised: How the soul grows through loss

Gerald L. Sittser 

A fantastic book for those who are grieving.

Gerald shares his own painful process through ‘catastrophic loss’ in a way that is relevant and revolutionary for any deep loss we must navigate in life. The book is available with application questions at the end of each chapter, making it an excellent book to work through personally or process with others in a small group setting.

A Grace Disguised

The Grief Recovery Handbook

John W. James & Russell Friedman

I highly recommend this book for learning to process your own life’s losses.

These seasoned authors widen the lens to our entire lives losses, big and small, and help us understand the myths we’ve been taught that have not been helpful in navigating our grief. Definitely a how to manual that will help you work through your own stuck places with grieving losses, new and old, in your life.

Grief Recovery Handbook

Parenting Books

Loving Our Kids On Purpose

Danny Silk

This book brings the principles of the Kingdom of God and revival into our strategy as parents.

2 Corinthians 3:17 tells us that “Where the Spirit of the Lord is there is freedom.”

Most parenting approaches train children to learn to accept being controlled, by well meaning adults. However, children are meant to gain independence from their parents, so must be taught how to control themselves, rather than be controlled.

This book will teach parents to train their children to manage their freedoms and protect their important relationships through real heart to heart connection.

Loving Our Kids on Purpose

Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child

John Gottman, PH.D

We all know that in a plane, parents are always instructed, in case of emergency, to put their own masks on before helping their child.

In this brilliant book, John Gottman addresses ’the heart of healthy parenting:’ We must become ‘emotionally intelligent,’ in order to guide our children to understanding and regulating their own emotional world.

Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child

Kids Who Carry Our Pain

Dr. Robert Hemfelt and Dr. Paul Warren

An instructive, practical and worthy read!

This book leads the way for parents who want to break generational cycles for their children, by learning to own their own pain.

Dr.s Hemfelt and Warren help us understand that what is not ‘owned and dealt with’ by parents, is left hanging in the atmosphere of our homes, and will be picked up and carried by our children… and on to the NEXT generation.

Kids Who Carry Our Pain

Giving The Love That Heals

Harville Hendrix, Ph.D and Helen Hunt, M.A., M.L.A

Chock full of insightful brilliance!

How can parents with their own unhealed wounds love their children well? ESPECIALLY during the ages and stages of their own deepest life’s struggles? Harville’s two-fold answer is: 1) By becoming well-informed about the needs of every developmental stage, and 2) By becoming consciously aware of how their own needs in that developmental stage went unmet.

This book is a guide to re-parenting the parent, as the parent parents the child – so the parent is healed, by giving the love to their child, that they themselves needed, at every stage.

Giving the Love That Heals

Discover Your Children’s Gifts

Don & Katie Fortune

This is a handbook for every parent, that will guide them in identifying and developing their children’s Motivational Gifts.

In workbook format, Don & Katie reveal what the Biblical gifts, revealed in Romans 12, look like in your child’s God-given make-up and personality. Understanding your children’s motivations, will go a long way in helping you parent each one, to live from the authentic heart Jesus gave them!

Discover Your Children's Gifts